Respectfully, I just think that there are portion of white people who are too caught up in venting their spleen about Black folk. They repeat the same phrases with the same old, "I have a black friend, blah, blah, blah" nonsense. Then they fingerwag at non-white people for bringing up race equating them with "race hustlers". Then, they discuss how "race shouldn't be talked about" because it is "not that important".
It makes me fascinated how it is always the ones who "don't want to talk about race" appear to be the first respondents in saying "blacks blame the white man" and "blacks are victims". This is so because when you hear disparaging talk about non-white people (Blacks especially) repeated from the white pundits, reporters and news anchors over and over in response to any question related to race, then how else are you going to articulate this deep issue? People who vent their spleen retreat back to the Rushisms and the Seanisms without even trying to think for themselves. It's as if they speak from a script ("I don't see color". "I have a black friend". "You are making blanket statements", "We're all human beings here", "Black people are victims.", "Black people are blaming whites for everything")
ad nauseum.
I'd be hard pressed if there is an original thought in there. But it's fine. Continue speaking from the script because this dismissive language has been studied, documented and known about linguistically, psychologically, culturally and sociologically. It has a theoretical basis.
When non-white people do bring up race and articulate their experiences, to some whites it is like a voyage into the
heart of darkness.
Instead of ever dealing with the issues, too much is caught up in the dynamics of how white people are "beseiged" by all this "race talk" and how they are comforted by the token apologists who silently stand at their side.
Because of this, that's why race can't be honestly dealt with.
Sadly though, I still reiterate that there are white people in the world who do care and talk about race as honestly as non-white people. However, it is always a shame that we always end up discussing race with those "who don't want to talk about it" and not the white people who actually are kind and genuine. Thank goodness, they exist.
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