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Criticism 101 by Lincoln, Matthew
Haven't you ever noticed that when you criticize people they will never reform by saying your right even if they are wrong? Criticism just creates a revoking behavior that makes your life more difficult and goes no where in changing the perception of the other persons mind. Here are some simple things you can do to help your self deal with people.
1. Never criticize even if the other person seems so belligerent and useless.
2. Give the other person gratitude of the doughty that you where listening to everything they wrote or said. Simply by responding to things you liked and didn’t like and then going about what you disagree with.
3. Comment as much as possible but don't flatter. Really read the other persons points or listen to them and try to see where they stand and why they feel this way. Then try to reply back.
4. "No one cares about you, only you can care about others. The one who does this has the advantage in life." - Dale Carnegie I think there is no explanation in that one.
Criticism can be lethal so make sure you figure out right way to go about things.
Ok the debate I am trying to make is that mostly everyone in this forum including occasionally myself criticizes. But we have to have the drive and commitment to make a change if we want our ideas to cast out better.
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"At the center of non-violence stands the principle of love." ~ Martin Luther King Jr
"Salute the smiling faces of the 21st Century." ~ Daisaku Ikeda
"An eye for eye only ends up making the whole world blind." ~ Mohandas Gandhi
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